Skip to main content

Seemingly Inconspicuous: Lessons from the Amish

     As I look around at the present state of the world, I find the amount of time and money we pour into our appearances to be a little bit alarming.  It makes me think that maybe the Amish (and other similar groups, like the Quakers) had a couple of things right.  I can't help but to respect the practical simplicity of the Amish way of life.  The specific applications of the movement in modern day aside, their emphasis on simplicity and their aversion to vanity are admirable. Clothing, in their minds, should not be something that draws attention to oneself.  Now, drawing attention to ourselves should not be our ultimate goal anyway, but if people do find something about us attractive, it should be our character.  This is certainly a Biblical concept.  1 Peter 1:3-4 says:

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.

Peter is speaking primarily to women (as they would generally be the ones to adorn themselves), but the principle applies to us all.  We should focus more on inner character than outward appearance, both in ourselves and in others.
   
    This principle was a legitimate concern and emphasis of the Amish, and yet, history with all its irony has chosen to define the Amish largely by their appearance.  When somebody says "Amish," you're mind instantly goes to the beards, suspenders, wide-brimmed hats, and simple, plain shirts, pants, and dresses that they wear.  By avoiding change, they have engaged in it.  As truly as we should heed their emphasis on avoiding our cultures obsession with apparel, so too should we heed the warning of what happens when you go to the other extreme.  We should never compromise modesty for the sake of conforming to social norms, but sometimes our attempts to reject the attitudes of the culture around us can backfire.  Who is more noticeable in a mall?  An Amish person or a regular Joe wearing cargo shorts and an AC/DC shirt?  Only God can judge the heart, but sometimes our attempts to be different can drag us into the same self-centered mindset as those from whom we are seeking to differentiate ourselves.  We can easily lose track of the reason why we should be different and our basis for determining how to express it.  We're human.  It's what we do.  Our attempts at humility end up turning into pride.  In the same way, our attempts at being being inconspicuous make us stick out like sore thumbs, and, inversely, our attempts at being different make us just like everyone else.

    So what do we do?  We do what Peter says.  We do our best to focus on building character and emulating Christ.  We put less attention on temporal things like the clothes we put on our bodies and the style of our hair.  As Paul says in Colossians 3:1, we set our affection on things above instead of on the things of the world.  We learn the lessons from the Amish, both that we should not focus on the outward appearance, and also that we need to be moderate and discerning in how we distinguish ourselves from those around us.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

"Father, Forgive Them"

“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” Forgiveness is hard.  Forgiveness is really, really hard. It’s difficult to forgive others who have genuinely harmed or offended us.   It’s easy to say , “I forgive you,” but it’s extremely difficult to feel it–to make peace in our hearts with the injustices that others have perpetrated against us. It just doesn’t feel right.  Sin should be punished!  Wrongs should be righted!  Right?! It’s difficult to forgive others when they ask for it.  It’s even more difficult to forgive them when they haven’t asked for it–when they don’t even recognize what they’ve done to hurt us. As our Savior hung upon His Cross, He asked the Father to forgive those nearby–those who were unwittingly contributing to the greatest injustice in the history of the world. These thieves, soldiers, and standers-by had no idea what was happening.  They had no idea that the jealousy of the Jews had placed Christ on that Cross...

5 Reasons I Want my Wife to Start Wearing a Head Covering during Corporate Worship

    Of late, the issue of head coverings has come up in my circle.  Okay...my cousin and I have been discussing it, but the point is, the issue has been bouncing around my head for the past few days.  It is a topic that I have avoided for some time.  Every time I read through 1 Corinthians, I would tell myself, "We'll get around to that."  The reality is that I didn't want to be "that guy"...that guy who people view as a chauvinistic jerk who wants to make sure everyone--especially his wife--remembers that he's the head of his home.  I think I'm beginning to respect "that guy"--those men who have cared enough to stand for what they believe.     Let me be clear that I am referring to head coverings for women (those old enough to leave them on...)  DURING CORPORATE WORSHIP.  I am not advocating head coverings at all times.  Though I see nothing necessarily wrong that practice, I don't see any command for it either.   ...

Paedocommunion: Consistent Covenantalism or Anti-Confessionalism?

    Being raised as a paedocommunionist (that means our kids get to eat Jesus, too), I have always been amazed by how passionately credocommunionists (that means their kids don't get to eat Jesus until they articulate a "credible" profession of faith) dislike the practice.  I would think that they could look at paedocommunion and at least respect it as an attempt to live out Covenant Theology in a consistent way.  Instead, paedocommunionists have been widely viewed as being on the fringe of the fringe (yes, that far) of Reformed Theology.  I like to think that I have been able to agree-to-disagree in an amicable way with my credocommunionist friends.  However, I will admit that being discounted as "unconfessional" (trust me, I've been called worse) has made many paedocommunionists (you'd have to ask my friends whether or not that applies to me) act in a manner that lacks Christian grace.     So, the question remains, is paedocommunion a view hel...