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What Kids Need

Parents,

Your kids don't need a bunch of stuff.  They don't need all of the experiences their friends have.  

Heaven knows they don't need more entertainment!

They need you.

Mom and Dad, they need you both.

They need your time, your attention, your presence.  

They need your big hugs and your kisses on the top of their heads.

They need to know that they're more important than whatever is on your phone at any given moment.

They need to know that they're part of something bigger--a family, a community.

They need your friendship and your discipline.  

They need you to show them how to live, how to align priorities properly.

They need to see you work, yes, but also play. 

And rest.

And read.

And exercise.

And, most importantly, they need to see you worship God.  

Every "yes" is a "no."  

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