Whoever restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding. Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise, when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent. (Proverbs 17:27-28) I am a talker. Those of you who know me personally already know that. It is so tempting to fill the silence, to weigh in on any discussion, to voice my opinion. I know I'm not the only one. Sometimes we talkers just want to be a part of something. We engage because we care and talking is how we show we want to be involved. Other times our speech is more self-motivated. We like to hear our own voices. We value our own opinion too highly. We share our opinions because we want you to know that we are learned enough to have an opinion on whatever topic happens to be under discussion. We think to be heard is to be respected, but the opposite is quite often the truth. Solomon t...