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"The Secret to Contentment"--Philippians 4:10-14

"The Secret to Contentment"
Philippians 4:10-19 (focus on 10-14)
"10.  I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. 11. Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. 12.  I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. 13.  I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
14.  Yet it was kind of you to share my trouble. 15.  And you Philippians yourselves know that in the beginning of the gospel, when I left Macedonia, no church entered into partnership with me in giving and receiving, except you only.  16.  Even in Thessalonica you sent me help for my needs once and again.  17.  Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that increases to your credit.  18.  I have received full payment, and more. I am well 
supplied, having received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent, a fragrant offering, a sacrifice acceptable and pleasing to God.  19.  And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. 20.  To our God and Father be glory forever and ever. Amen.

I.                  Introduction
a.     Will Rogers: “Advertising is the art of convincing people to spend money they don’t have for something they don’t need.”
b.    We are bombarded daily with things that are trying to make us discontent
c.     TV commercials, internet ads, billboards, etc. try to convince us that we need something
d.    The job of these advertisements is to make us discontent with who we are, what we look like, what we have, etc.
e.     Today we’re going to learn the secret to contentment
II.               Scripture Introduction
a.     In Philippians 4 Paul is giving his final instructions and farewells
b.    He calls them to the pursuit of Christian unity and continual rejoicing
c.     He begins to discuss the blessing that they had been to his ministry
d.    Scripture reading
e.     Prayer
III.           Paul Rejoice in their Generosity (Verse 10)
a.     He rejoiced in the Lord that they had revived their concern for him
b.    They had supported (concern=$) him before, but had apparently stopped
c.     He is not attacking them—he makes an excuse for them: “You had not opportunity”
d.    Note that he rejoiced in the Lord
                                                             i.      Their generosity was a result of the work of God in their lives
                                                          ii.      He recognizes God’s hand of Providence over his ministry
IV.           Paul Clarifies (Verses 11-12)
a.      He wants to make sure they don’t misunderstand him
b.    He wasn’t saying that he was in need
                                                             i.      The physical gift wasn’t his focus
                                                          ii.      Verse 17
c.     To the contrary, he had learned to be content in any situation
d.    Content="autarkes," which means self-sufficient, by ext. content
e.     He explains in Verse 12
                                                             i.      He knew how to be brought low and abound
                                                          ii.      He knew how to face plenty and hunger
                                                       iii.      Abundance and need
f.      Circumstances should never dictate our attitude
                                                             i.      How many times do people say, “If only I had…if only I won the lottery?”
                                                          ii.      The key to contentment is not adding more fuel to the fire, but taking away some of the flames (paraphrasing Thomas Fuller)
g.     Note that Paul says he learned it (Verses 11 and 12)
                                                             i.      Contentment is contrary to fallen human nature
                                                          ii.      It is part of our progressive sanctification
                                                       iii.      Secret=mystery, something God reveals
h.    Note that Paul doesn’t simply say he knew how to be poor
                                                             i.      Being rich can be harder than being poor
                                                          ii.      Barnes: “It requires as much grace to keep the heart right in prosperity as it does in adversity, and perhaps more.  Adversity, of itself, does something to keep the mind in a right state; prosperity does nothing.”
                                                       iii.      It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven
i.       Paul had learned this secret first-hand
V.              Paul Shares the Secret (Verse 13)
a.     The secret to contentment is finding our strength in Christ
b.    I can do all things
                                                             i.      The context must determine what Paul means
                                                          ii.      Paul is not saying he can fly, etc.
                                                       iii.      He can endure any hardships, temptations, etc.
c.     Through him who strengthens me
                                                             i.      Manuscript variation
                                                          ii.      Either way, “him” is clear
                                                       iii.      Paul had said he was self-sufficient, but he makes sure to remind them that it was entirely because of the grace of God
                                                       iv.      Christ equips us to fulfill our calling
                                                          v.      Ephesians 6:10: “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might.”
VI.           Paul Acknowledges their Kindness (Verse 14)
a.     To make sure not to discourage their generosity, he takes notice of the kindness of their deed
b.    He makes sure that they know he remembers their previous kindness
                                                             i.      Share=sygkoinōnéō, to have fellowship with
                                                          ii.      Affliction=persecution or distress
                                                       iii.      Their financial support showed solidarity
c.     He goes on to assure them that he is well-supplied, but wants them to receive the spiritual benefits of being generous
VII.       Application
a.     Resist the mindset of our culture
                                                             i.      Reject materialism
                                                          ii.      We cannot avoid advertising, but we must counter it with discernment
                                                       iii.      Advertising has it's place, but we must learn to avoid impulsive purchasing; "Do I really need this?  Or do they want me to think I need this?"
b.    Support missionaries and charities
                                                             i.      Verse 15
                                                          ii.      A heart that is grateful for the light of the Gospel will seek to participate in spreading that light in places of darkness
                                                       iii.      Prayer and encouragement are important, but so is money
                                                       iv.      Look for opportunity
c.     Rest in God’s Providence
                                                             i.      Psalm 103:19: “The LORD has established his throne in the heavens, and his kingdom rules over all.”
                                                          ii.      Psalm 145:17: “The LORD is righteous in all his ways and kind in all his works.”
                                                       iii.      God is both omnipotent and caring
                                                       iv.      When we rest in God’s character and plan, we can endure anything
d.    Focus on Jesus, not our circumstances
                                                             i.      2 Timothy 2:1: “You, then, be strengthened by the grace that is in Christ Jesus.”
                                                          ii.      When we focus on Jesus and His Kingdom, we can bear with any difficulties
                                                       iii.      Keep your eye on the ball…
                                                       iv.      Gill: “A believer may say, who has the smallest pittance of earthly enjoyments, this, with a covenant God, with an interest in Christ, with grace here and heaven hereafter, is enough.”
                                                          v.      Rely on Christ as much in the good times as in the bad
VIII.    Conclusion
a.     So, am I content with who/where I am and what I have?
b.    What is the source of my contentment?



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