Another day, another black man dead at the hands of the police. The well-warranted response has unequivocally condemned the misdeeds of the four officers involved and called for their prosecution. Social media is replete with calls for action, for change, for justice. Our nation is in an uproar once again. As a white man, situations like this leave me sad and confused. I never know quite how to react. I know that, first of all, we need to make sure that we don't conflate all stories of violence against black men. Each story is unique and needs to be viewed individually. We may notice the pattern that these stories demonstrate, but we need to acknowledge every victim and every perpetrator. We need to weigh the evidence in each and every case. I also know that the problem of police brutality is not exclusively a racial issue. I am willing to acknowledge that police brutality towards black men may be disproportionate, but the reality i...